Most of us go through “droughts” – times when sex takes a backseat and you’re just not feeling the erotic spark anymore. While going without sex/romance/intimacy for short periods of time is normal in relationships, it’s not something you want to let go on indefinitely.
But how do you get that wild feeling back after so many years?
You take the 7 Day Commitment to Sex Challenge!
7 days dedicated to reigniting the romance in your relationship through tips, guides, and help from Castle Megastore.
And, there’s only one rule to this challenge…you MUST have sex with your partner every day, at least once a day, for 7 straight days.
Ready to take the challenge?
Cuddle up for a little Q-T
Getting used to intimacy, erotica, and passion again can be awkward or embarrassing for some couples. That’s why your day 1 challenge is to watch a movie together on the couch and snuggle up. Share some sexy treats (we suggest strawberries and whipped cream) and cuddle up for movie you both love. Perhaps a movie you watched together when you first started dating?
Enjoy this relaxing time and reflect on why you love your partner – you may find yourself already feeling some “spark”!
Increase intimacy and save water – shower with your lover
Time to get naked & eco-friendly! Share a shower or a bath with your love for today’s challenge. You can opt for a soothing candle-lit bubble bath after work, or a steamy, hands-all-over shower in the morning. Pick what makes you most uncomfortable, and use this time to connect with your partner in a moment of privacy.
Oh, and while you’re already nude together…why not complete the rest of the challenge after the bubbles have popped?
Massage your mate,
Make your lover feel great inside & out
Who can resist a sensual massage from the love of their life? Carve out an hour or two in the evening to massage each other – no clothes left on allowed! – with a sweet massage oil. You can chat during this time, or just relax in sweet silence. Either way, you’ll be feeling lighter and more relaxed after this encounter.
If you’ve already had sex this day, you can simply cuddle in after the massage. Otherwise, enjoy some slow-and-sensual sex.
It’s Date Night!
And when we say date night, we mean -date night-. Not the bar down the street, not putting the kids to bed early so you can catch HBO’s Dowton Abbey. We mean a serious date night. Dress up, go that fancy place you live that you can never find time for, and spend an evening indulging in romantic talk and delectable dinner. Don’t talk about work, stress, or kids – instead, focus on what you love about being together.
Maybe bringing up some memories of what you did after date nights 10 years ago will click that “spark” back on!
Surprise them with a sext,
Teases for tonight!
Running low on time this week? No worries, you can finish this romance challenge from your computer desk. Send your lover a sexy text message (or email) that gives them a preview of what’s in store for tonight.
Stumped on what to write? Try:
I’m wearing new lingerie today…if you can guess what color they are, I’ll show them to you tonight
Feeling extry frisky thinking about you today…I’m already horny!
When I get home I only want one thing…you, naked, and in bed.
Remember, once you get home, it’s time to fulfill that fantasy that’s surely been in their head all day!
Try somewhere new,
If you like it, try it twice!
Move out of the bed and into the living room. Or onto the stairs. Or the laundry room. Or maybe the hottub…really, where ever you haven’t gotten wild in before! Moving outside of the bedroom will help you explore new positions and let’s face it…the element of never-done-this-here-before is pretty irresistable!
Celebrate with a Sex Toy!
Congratulations! You’ve made it to the last day of your 7 day commitment to sex! Feeling good? We bet you are. Why not celebrate with a sex toy? Adding another element of “Ooo, that’s kinky!” can keep your 7 day streak going!
Did you complete the challenge? Let us know in the comments!!
Making love fun (even after 10 years of marriage),